Drunken Charm

HERE’S WHAT THEY’RE SAYING ABOUT ME, MY SKILL SET, AND MY TEACHING.

“Andy is the best dating instructor I have ever worked with. There is no substitute to the quality of instruction that he provided.  His advise is very simple but definetly to the point.  I have been out going to meet women for a couple years in the a bar.  I have never met anyone who has the Andy’s capability both in sexually communicating to women and in teaching how to do it the way he does.  As the result within the next two times I was out, following his advise I was able to pull a one night stand in 2 hours.  His advise is right on point and stepped my game up to whole another level. I would highly recommend to take a Private Instruction with Andy as soon as possible for anyone who has difficulty connecting with women. Thanks Andy.“

-Steve (San Francisco)

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“Andy has been an incredible teacher, staying in contact and calling out my bullshit excuses.

Andy came to Atlanta to help me work out my remaining issues, and we worked together over the course of about 9 days to iron out the kinks.

What’s amazing about how Andy teaches is the purity and simplicity of it all. Basically: show up, be cool / have fun, don’t care, and escalate escalate escalate. Boom, that’s it.

And it just works.

My results from just this last Thursday, Friday, and Saturday were 5 numbers (all “live” and actively interested if their texts are any indication) and one girl who asked me if she could give ME her number so she could be my fuckbuddy, even though she lives 4 hours away and has a boyfriend. And I would have taken her home right then and there, but it was her boyfriend who came to pick her up — but she’s coming into town this weekend just to hang with yours truly.

I also simply HAVE to mention Andy’s willingness to drop his ego 100% for the sake of his students. We were out last Thursday, and I’m in set with 3 women, and Andy is hovering around to watch the interaction but not coming in set so I can practice flying solo… and he is looking creepy as FUCK, interrupting me and dragging me out of set to give advice, visibly angry because I’m fucking it up, and so on, to the point where the women in set noticed him and I had to tell them that he was my very weird, very eccentric, very cool friend.

When they asked what he wanted to talk about, I told them he needed advice on a girl!

Anyway, if you’re thinking about a boot camp and you want someone that can keep it simple, cut the bullshit, and show you how to move to the next level, Andy is your man.”

-MC (Atlanta)

“Andy, thank you for reminding me to trust in my gut, priceless lesson . . . That man is a legend and I respect him for it.“

-DM (Australia)

“I just leveled up on world of warcraft and wanted to celebrate by telling y’all about my weekend with Andy.

I have to say… taking a private instruction with Andy is the best decision I’ve made in my life. I went from being the guy who walks around the bar trying to work up the courage to talk to people to having a chick hanging all over me in the club on the last night of the PI. I don’t remember how I started talking with the chick who was hanging all over me, but I probably just said “hey what’s up, how’s your night going?”. If you have the money to take a private instruction with Andy, I would definitely recommend doing so. The thing I liked about Andy is that he told me what I needed to hear and didn’t sugar coat anything. He’s just an overall great guy and I’m glad I had the opportunity to hang out and learn from him for a weekend.

Friday night we head out to a bar with a friend of Andys. We get there… Andy and his friend walk in with presence, I walk in looking and feeling nervous as fuck. Andy goes to the bar to get a drink while I stand behind still nervous and visibly so. I know this because after Andy got his drink he looks at me and says “Relax… loosen up.” We sit down and talk for a bit before Andy tells me to go to the bar, grab a drink and talk to the people around. I do just that, except the guy I try to talk to is in his iphone and doesn’t acknowledge me. I’m so nervous I almost forget to pay for my drink. Anyway, after I get my drink I see a guy sitting alone on a stool so I decide to talk to him. He turns out to be really cool and I start feeling more at ease. I leave him to join Andy again. While Andy and I are talking the guy comes over and says he’s heading out but it was nice meeting me. BAM!.. new friend. If this guy was with chicks I’m sure he definitely wouldn’t have minded me talking to them. Andy then tells me to approach a booth of people, so I walk over and start talking with them. The guy on the end talks to me while everyone else looks like why the fuck is this guy standing here talking to us. The convo lasted about a minute or so before I decided to leave. I get back to Andy and he tells me that he meant a different booth… the one with two chicks. We finish our drinks and decide to bounce to another bar nearby. We get to the other bar… I’m still nervous, but manage to talk to a few people. We bounce from there to an underground club that makes me feel like I’m in the matrix. At the club… I let loose and had fun. I won’t go into detail about all the interactions I had at the club, but the one I thought was the best was when I escalated too fast on a chick by telling her “you’re making it so hard for me not to kiss you right now.” She freaked out and went to find her boyfriend..haha.

Saturday we go to the mall for some daygame and to get nice clothes for me. Nothing much came out of daygame, but we ended up picking out clothes that made me look like a sexy mother fucker. We go back to the hotel for a nap before we head out to the club. We get to the club, I walk in with confidence this time as Andy had taught me. We grab some drinks and post up at the bar in line of sight of the entrance. We talk for a bit before Andy tells me to go talk to people. A piece of advice that I liked was to have fun and not feel the need to tell the truth about everything. I can tell people I’m passionate about scrapbooking and basketweaving as long as I own it. Andy even told me that I could cheers people to leveling up on world or warcraft, which I thought was fucking funny so I did that to a few people and it was surprising how easily they opened up. By the end of the night I was opening and talking with people so effortlessly that I had a chick hanging all over me and I don’t even remember how I started talking to her. At one point in the conversation she called me a player. Ha! I’ve had one date in the past few years and a chick is calling me a player! I laughed inside my head, but told her that I was indeed a player and had already picked up two chicks that night before her.

I still have a lot of work ahead of me, but I now feel more confident about walking that path alone and ending up where I want to be. You will definitely be reading lay reports from me in the near future.”

- David (Atlanta)

“I learned a valuable lesson on discipline, restraint and perseverance by not calling Tieguy by his handle(That is a cool a$* nickname). Honestly he is one of the coolest cats I have ever met, guys keep a lookout for him. Every time I looked up this guy was making it happen, unless he was awnsering one of the million thousand questions I asked . . . Straight to the point and sincere, plus he is the type of guy you kinda have to like unless you are a hater.“

-Jeff P

“I’ve never taken a bootcamp with Andy; I just have the privilege of hanging out with him every day. Everyday is like a PI, so I just try to absorb as much as I can.

I don’t have the space nor the ability to list out everything I’ve learned from the Tie Guy, but if I had to pick three things, it’d be indifference, sexual escalation, and follow up game.

Indifference as a mindset is a topic Andy hammers into my head.  His analogy of being successful with women and buying a lottery ticket is spot-on.  Whenever I get a little bit of AA, I think about the simple fact that I shouldn’t be so worried about what someone I’ve invested little time in thinks about me.

But while indifference is key to even being able to approach, my sticking point isn’t AA.  My sticking point is sexual escalation.  Projecting a sexual vibe is something Andy and I worked on during the Lifestyle Retreat, and it’s something we continue to work on.  In our final days in Manila, Andy broke down my problems in a very simple way:  What I’ve learned in the past has fucked me up, that I’ve somehow brainwashed myself into thinking that I need to establish a “connection” before being sexual.  He explained that I’m already charismatic and funny, and that I’ve already got a lot going for me in life, but that if I project a sexual vibe from the beginning, all these other positive traits will come out naturally.  If I just stopped worrying so much about the outcome, then I won’t have so much “escalation anxiety.”  Again, indifference ties it all together.

Lastly, it’s been awesome just having someone around to critique my follow-up and text game.  I was blown away the first time I worked with Andy on sending a text message.  Not only did he correct the overall tone of my messages, but he dissected it down to the very word/punctuation.  To give a specific example, I met a girl a while back, and we’ve been texting but haven’t been able to set up a time for a Day 2 yet.  Anyway, she suggests having brunch on a Sunday.  Now, I love omelets and pancakes, but I’ll only consider having brunch the morning after fucking a girl, not as a precursor to hooking up.  Andy advised me to tell her that we’ll just try to meet up next week and I’ll call her later.  But the week after, girl suggests brunch on a Sunday again.  I ask Andy for his opinion, and he tells me that I need to just call this shit out: “What’s up with you and Sunday? Don’t you know it’s my day of rest?” And now we’re going to have drinks at night on a normal day like two people who are going to hook up should.”

- Huey (San Francisco)